Monday Morning Recap

This weekend I had the joy of speaking with Matt on Getting Real in our Marriage. On Saturday we celebrated 22 years of marriage, so it was an honor to share what God has taught us over the twenty two years.

Here are our main points and scriptures, but you can see this weekend’s message here.  Also, if you weren’t able to join us this weekend and would like to give your regular tithe and offering, you can give online by clicking here.

Ephesians 5:21-33, “And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. 24 As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything. 25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. 27 He did this to present her to himself as a glorious church without a spot or wrinkle or any other blemish. Instead, she will be holy and without fault. 28 In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. 29 No one hates his own body but feeds and cares for it, just as Christ cares for the church. 30 And we are members of his body. 31 As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” 32 This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one. 33 So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”(NLT)

WE MUST SUBMIT TO EACH OTHER

21, “And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”

Submit – Greek Hupotasso. (hoop-o-tas-so) means to arrange or voluntary attitude of cooperating.

A Greek military term meaning “to arrange [troop divisions] in a military fashion under the command of a leader”. In non-military use, it was “a voluntary attitude of giving in, cooperating, assuming responsibility, and carrying a burden”.

 

THE GOAL OF THE WIFE IS TO BE LIKE A HEALTHY CHURCH

Ephesians 5:24 As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything.

Revelation 2:2-4  “I know all the things you do. I have seen your hard work and your patient endurance. I know you don’t tolerate evil people. You have examined the claims of those who say they are apostles but are not. You have discovered they are liars. You have patiently suffered for me without quitting. “But I have this complaint against you. You don’t love me or each other as you did at first.”

 

THE GOAL OF THE HUSBAND IS TO BE LIKE CHRIST

25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word. 

Hebrews 13:8, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever”(NLT)

Husbands Love Your Wives as Christ Loves the Church

The Husband Takes The First Step

Romans 5:8, But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

The Husband is Generous – As Christ

John 3:16,  “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

 

Wives must be careful not to become…

The Preoccupied Church/Wife

The Persecuted Church/Wife.

Revelation 2:10 Don’t be afraid of what you are about to suffer. The devil will throw some of you into prison to test you. You will suffer for ten days. But if you remain faithful even when facing death, I will give you the crown of life.

The Political Church/Wife

14 “But I have a few complaints against you. You tolerate some among you whose teaching is like that of Balaam, who showed Balak how to trip up the people of Israel. He taught them to sin by eating food offered to idols and by committing sexual sin.